Tuxedo Accessories for Fathers of LDS Grooms

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Tuxedo Shoes

Tuxedo shoes are basically black, shiny and plain, without any designs as those you would find on wingtip dress shoes. Tux shoes are usually made of plain patent leather. You may need to rent tux shoes. Most tux shops or formal wear shops should be able to help you out on renting tux shoes as part of the tux rental package. Remember it is better to try on the rental shoes in the afternoon when you feet are relaxed, as they will be on the day of the wedding. (Bring your dress socks that you will wear with the shoes for the wedding for the best fit)

Dress Socks

Picking out dress socks to go with your tux is easy. You will wear black over-the-calf dress socks. They do not need to be fancy, but be sure and take them to the tux shop or men’s formal wear store when you go for the fitting so you find rental shoes that fit and are comfortable (remember you will be standing in the rental shoes for 4- 8 hours on the Wedding Day). A word to the wise – I recommend men’s black dress socks which are support hose type is best, as they will stay up and provide support.


Bow ties are traditional, but the entire wedding party (you and all the men) must all be wearing the same style of tie –either a straight tie or a bow tie! Bow ties can be rented, or purchased, from the tux shop.

If the bride would like to coordinate the ties colors to match the bridal colors, then all men should all wear the same matching ties. Or, be safe by choosing traditional Basic Black.

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If you don’t know how to tie a bow tie –you could learn how by watching a video (courtesy of howcast.com) or get a clip-on variety of bow tie.


The classic tuxedo shirt will have French cuffs and will therefore require a pair of cuff links. A tux shop or formal wear stores will usually have some cuff links you can rent as part of the tux rental package, or you may have to buy cuff links.
Word to the Wise: Don’t buy expensive cuff links as they are easy to lose. From experience, you usually only lose one, making the one you still have totally useless.

NOTE: If the bride and groom give you cufflinks or a matching tie as a nice gift, wear them. Matching cuff links bring a sense of unity to the men in the wedding party and matching ties (coordinated with the bride’s colors) will be much more visible in the wedding photos and will add a fun splash of color for the men.

Remember, to avoid last minute stress, decide on, and try on and order tuxes and accessories well in advance of the wedding day!

♥ Dr. Howard Edward Haller
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